not keeping the abuse a secret

a child-sexual-abuse survivor's blog

About

First daughter.

1948 or '49, wee me, with MomFORm&ms

Middle child of seven.

Tomboy (although I still loved my dolls and, making mud-pies 🙂 ).

….homely, so it’s a good thing you’re smart!,” an aunt laughed.

“You look just like Mom! — she was beautiful!,” a brother insisted.

“Maybe not pretty, but, striking…,” a sister mused with a shrug.

Former [dabbler in?] anorexia.  (Tried bulimia but Lord I hate vomiting.)

Recovering alcoholic.  Recovering addict.  (29 years, both.)

Child of God.

Critter-lover.

Survivor.

Strong.

Very strong.

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2 thoughts on “About

  1. Dear Lalita,

    Hello back atcha! 🙂

    Somehow I completely MISSED seeing this comment from you UNTIL, today. :-\ So sorry.

    I’d LOVE to talk with you re your using my blog as part of your research, if it’s not too late?! Reply to me here and I’ll look for word from ya. 😉 (Give me your email & I’d contact you directly, via.)

    solveigsdaughter

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  2. Hello there,

    You have a really great blog which I am sure other survivors will find very inspiring. I’m sorry if my comment seems out of place but I couldn’t find an option to message you privately. I am a postgraduate student from the UK and I am currently researching the role of blogging for survivors of sexual assault. I would really appreciate it if you could spare a couple of moments to contact me as I am interested in using your blog as part of my research, and would like to provide you with more information.

    Thank you so much for your time. Have a great day and I wish you all the best in your journey to healing.

    Lalita

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